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Monday, April 21, 2014

Week Twenty-Eight: Staci Stallings

And The Greatest of These is Love

In the end three things shall last, faith, hope, and love. And the greatest of these is love.” –1 Corinthians 13:13 (NIV)

All writers know the faith it takes to put words on paper. They’ve seen the faith required to search for the right word, the right nugget of truth that will mark their work as top-notch. Ultimately, they know the gut-wrenching faith it takes to turn theirwritten baby over to someone who might reject it outright.

They know hope too. Even after they’ve been kicked to the curb by agents, who probably didn’t even read the first sentence of a query, after a few days of chocolate and Kleenexes, hope surges again. Maybe the next editor will love it, buy it, publish it, and send it to be included next to John Grisham’s on the front table of every bookstore in the country. Don’t deny it. You know that hope is real.

One element, however, sometimes gets lost when faith and hope begin to emerge in our writing journey. That element is love. Sure, we love it, or we wouldn’t stress ourselves out to learn how to do it better, to find someone to publish it, and to put ourselves on the chopping block of rejection time and again. It’s almost a given that we love it. The problem is we forget that we love it.

As a character who loves music in one of my books says, “You know me, I’d play for the squirrels if they’d listen.”

Too often the longer we write, the less we remember what we love about it. Our focus shifts from writing for love to writing so others will love what we’ve written.

When we write for the love of it, every frustrating moment is an exhilarating challenge. Shaping the ephemerally picturesque stories in our minds into something coherent and fluid is like no other experience. The very act of putting that last piece of our word puzzle into place has no equal.

Remember the journals you kept, the poems you wrote, the short stories that are still tucked away in some old notebook. You wrote those not to gain love but because they were burning a hole in your soul to be put on paper.

Then you began writing not for love but to gain love. You became convinced you had to twist your writing to meet what others believe is marketable or publishable. And so you let your love for writing morph into wanting your writing to be loved… sometimes at all costs. You twisted yourself into a pretzel, learning perfect grammar, point of view, the “correct” way to write a marketable manuscript.

Learning and growing in your writing is one thing, but when
that gets so tangled in the rules you forget why you started in the first place, that is something altogether different. Love is the key to writing real. As the Bible says so eloquently:

In the end three things shall last, faith, hope, and love. And the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:13

It’s a lesson every writer should take to heart.

  • A stay-at-home mom with a husband, three kids and a writing addiction on the side, #1 Best Selling Christian author, Staci Stallings has numerous titles for readers to choose from. Not content to stay in one genre and write it to death, Staci’s stories run the gamut from young adult to adult, from motivational and inspirational to full-out Christian and back again. Every title is a new adventure! That’s what keeps Staci writing and you reading. Staci touches the lives of people across the globe every week with her various Internet endeavors including: Staci's Internet "Home":

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Sunday, April 13, 2014

Week Twenty-Seven: Cheryl Wolverton

No Burden

“This is love, not that we had loved God, but that he had loved us, and sent his Son to be as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.” 1 John 4:10 (NIV)

This is one of my favorite verses in the Bible. We get so caught up in today’s world about what others are saying, what we hear from the television or what we hear in every day chatting with friends. The world is filled with me-first or if I want this then everyone else should bow down and give me that. Tolerance is the key today to functioning without being lambasted. If you have an opinion that isn’t considered tolerant of everyone and every idea out there, you’re labeled intolerant.

It can be a heavy burden, especially to a writer when he or she is trying to paint a picture of God’s love. But we can go back to this verse and be reminded that what is really important is God’s love. God’s love was presented to us before we even knew He loved us. So really, if we’re focused on God’s love and sharing that love with others, it doesn’t matter how the world changes, what others say, what we see on TV because ultimately, God loves us and sent His Son as an offering for our sins.

You can have absolute peace in life’s turmoil when you think about that. I mean, seriously, God loves you so much that He sent His son. What does it matter if someone comes to you and tells you that you’re intolerant and your book is narrow because it presents God as the only way to life? Does it matter when someone tells you that you aren’t being friendly because you refuse to go to a bar where your work is having a party? You’re being intolerant of others.

In these circumstances you remind yourself of what it all is really about. It’s not about us, but about what God did for us.

And we can smile.  I ask you today to consider this and when you feel burdened down by life or by others, remind yourself what God did for you and it’ll help lift that heavy burden from your heart.

Cheryl Wolverton lives in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, with Steve, her husband of over 24  years and her two children. For fun, the family likes to play cards, roller blade together, walk along the levee of the Mississippi River and especially visit anything that has to do with science, including stargazing. For info about her books, visit her at

Sunday, April 06, 2014

Week Twenty-Six: John Westervelt

Only A Letter Writer

“You are our letter, written in our hearts, known and read by all men; being manifested that you are a letter of Christ, cared for by us, written not with ink, but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone, but on tablets of human hearts.”
------2 Corinthians 3:2-3 (NAS)

Those were simpler days. The year was 1954. Nelda and I, newlyweds from Oklahoma, set up housekeeping in New Jersey where I would work for Bell Telephone Laboratories.  Long distance telephoning was only for funerals, so I wrote my mother one week and Nelda’s the next. Nelda wrote the other mother. The weekly letters continued after moving to Tulsa, Oklahoma. Nelda’s mother has sent me a letter each week for fifty years.

Let me share a part of my June 26, 1994 letter to my daughter, sister, and mother-in-law.
Sunday June 19, 1994--

Dear Mary Kim, Harriette, and Mom,

On Tuesday I attended the Tulsa Christian Writers’ Club. First time guests are asked to tell something about themselves and what they write. On my first visit last fall I said, “I write a weekly letter.” At the spring Writers’ Conference my answer to similar questions was, “I am a student of writing.”
Regularly the club has a writing contest for members present at the meeting. The contest theme handed out at this meeting is “That’s What Friends Are For.” This week I wrote about Nelda’s untimely death. To meet the 600 word limit, I cut fat, followed by muscle, and finally I scraped bones. Should I win or place then I could be a real writer.

My condition of “only a letter-writer” prompts a story.
The year was 50 AD. Two mothers from Tarsus met for the first time in many years.

“Abigail, so good to see you. It has been a long time and we
were such good friends when our boys were students together at the synagogue. Tell me about your family. I remember your son always won the school’s writing contests. He seemed so gifted. Has he used his gift professionally?”

“Hannah, you know he was a good boy and a natural leader. However, I have been disappointed on two counts. One, he never married so I have no grandson. And secondly, he has written nothing noteworthy. Oh, Paul has written some letters which he tells me are read by the churches he has started.”

Love, Dad, John.

My story, “My Best Friend,” won first place in the contest, so I became a writer. This story is on “My Best Friend” can be found under Heartwarming Stories, year 1995.

John C. Westervelt of Tulsa, Oklahoma has published a book about his boyhood in the 1930s. He is a volunteer at his churchs weekday preschool.

Sunday, March 30, 2014

Week Twenty-Five: Barbara J Robinson

Why Write When You Keep Getting Rejections?

“Praise be to the Lord my Rock, who trains my hands for war, my fingers for battle.” Psalm 144:1(NIV)

The best rejection I ever received was from an editor who said my novel was eloquently written and bright with vivid dialogue. She boasted of how it piqued the reader’s interest from the first page and held it raptly until the last. She said I had created beautifully strong, believable characters, and I was talented. She raved that my novel was clearly much more than a book. She said it was truly inspiring and thought-provoking. I was beaming until I read on and came to the clincher, which said after careful consideration they decided not to publish it since it didn’t fit in with their list of titles.

Why do I continue to write despite rejection after rejection?

After having been published numerous times in local newspapers and anthologies, winning first prize in fiction-writing competition, and having my short story published in a literary magazine, I decided it was time to start submitting my work seriously. With one submission came the rejection letter above, bringing me to the question of why I write. I feel my writing ability is God-given for the purpose of enabling me to reach out and help others. I feel God wants me to keep trying. It was through my writing I learned I had made a difference in one life, the life of my little sister. She wrote me after reading one of my poems and said I had taught her to pray when we were kids. If not for a poem I had written, we could have gone our whole lives through, and I would never have known. I want others to experience the personal relationship I have with God and, hopefully, show them how they, too, can have that same productive relationship. If my writing makes a difference in saving one lost sheep, I will have served God by bringing another to His kingdom.As Jesus told stories, I believe writers should remember that it is His lost sheep who need saving, and it is up to us to use His method. The most important difference we, as writers, can make in the lives of others is the difference between eternal life and death.

Money and fame do not begin to compare with learning that you, personally, have made a difference in the life of another human being, no matter how small, like teaching my sister to pray as a child. Writing can bring you closer to others by letting you share your life, hopes, dreams, goals, and insights with others and be used as a tool for building bridges and relationships. It allows writers to reach out and touch, really communicate through the power of the written word. Writing brings you closer to others, opens up new worlds by allowing you to invent your own new worlds and share them with others, and by allowing you to grow as a person, with your writing, as you progress on a journey of self-discovery. Writing may just give someone else a whole new world, a better world, one with God. Then, you will have made a real difference.

Author, B. J. Robinson, is an award-winning, multi-published author with four traditionally published novels as well as independently published short stories, novellas and novels. She writes from Florida with a golden cocker spaniel named Sunflower, golden retriever named Honi, and a shelter cat named Frankie for company, blessed with a husband, children, and grandchildren. Jesus is her best friend. She's an avid reader and passionate writer. Visit her at, or

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Week Twenty-Four: Kathy Ide

God's Calling To Write

“You shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.”
Acts 1:8  (NKJV)

Have you ever read an article, book, or story that really touched your heart? Did you ever think about what had to happen for that piece to get into your hands?

Before you could read it, someone had to buy it from someplace. That place had to purchase it from a publisher, who had to get it from an author. Before that, the author had to have the idea to write it. Even before that, God had to touch that author’s heart with a call to write.

God knows how long it takes to get a manuscript written
(and rewritten, revised, edited, proofread), accepted, and published. He also knows who is going to need to read what He wants you to write, and He knows precisely when those people are going to need it.

Since God knows all that, and since His timing is perfect, we can relax! We can trust that He called us at the right time, and He gave us everything we need to fulfill His plan.

Think again about that piece you read that touched your heart. What if the author had let rejection letters or the cost of
a writers’ conference or some critical comments from an editor
crush her spirit so that she turned her back on God’s calling? Then the moment when God touched your heart would never have happened.

If God is calling you to write, that’s every bit as important as if He were calling you to a foreign missions field. Being a writer is
a lot like being a missionary.

Missionaries go through extensive training, including learning the language and cultures of the countries they’re traveling to. Writers need to learn everything they can about how to best reach their target audience.

Missionaries need sponsors. Writers need people who can support them emotionally, financially, and through prayer.

Missionaries are often misunderstood. Your loved ones may
question why you’re working so hard at something that seems to have so little reward.

Missionaries suffer squalid conditions and adverse circumstances because they believe in their calling. If God has called you to write, you may have to squeeze in writing time and costs among all your other priorities.

Missionaries are often rejected by the people they are trying to reach. If you submit queries, proposals, or manuscripts to publishing
houses, you will be rejected. But you mustn’t let a few—or even
several—rejections sway you from the task God has called you to.

A missionary can reach many people. An author can reach countless individuals through a book or article or story.

If God is calling you to be His witness through writing, you have His promise to receive power from the Holy Spirit to fulfill that task.

Kathy Ide is a published author/ghostwriter, editor/mentor, and writers’ conference speaker. Her latest book is Proofreading Secrets of Best-Selling Authors. Kathy is the founder and coordinator of The Christian PEN: Proofreaders and Editors Network ( and the Christian Editor Connection ( To find out more, visit

Sunday, March 16, 2014

Week Twenty-Three: Donna Shepherd

Is Fear Your Master?

For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.”
—Isaiah 41:13 (NIV)

In first grade, my teacher gave me an assignment to paint a poster- size picture. Every day I spent part of my recess time staying inside and working on it. But since I’m a bit of a perfectionist, I made little progress. One day my teacher came in to see how much I’d accomplished and exclaimed, “This is how much you’ve got done?”

I can still remember how hot my face felt and see the disappointment in her eyes. I thought I’d done well, but realized at that moment how slowly I had worked. She wanted to cultivate my talent for drawing, and agreed to let me continue, but begged me to “pick up the pace.”

I wasn’t afraid of the teacher, so what was I afraid of? Imperfection. I wanted the picture to be perfect. I wanted to do it right so badly, I agonized over every stroke of the paintbrush.
I struggle even today with that same fear as a writer. I want the words to be perfect. And to think the Lord is using me? Oh, my, how much more right do they need to be if I am speaking on
behalf of my Lord?

When I think of something as perfect, I envision something without any flaws. And we read in the Bible we are supposed to be perfect. Matthew 5:48: Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.(NIV)
But how can this be? We are not perfect. If we were, we wouldn’t have needed our Savior, Jesus Christ, in the first place.

Perfection, as used in Scripture in regard to our everyday life, means maturity and completeness.
Matthew Henry’s Commentary on Matthew 5:48 says, “It is the duty of Christians to desire, and aim at, and press towards perfection in grace and holiness. And therein we must study to
conform ourselves to the example of our heavenly Father. Surely more is to be expected from the followers of Christ than from others; surely more will be found in them than in others.”

And to that statement I say, “Amen!” There is more expected of us, and there should be. We are writing for the only one who IS perfect, and ours is a life of example. I don’t want to be a baby in
Christ. My desire is to be a mature believer aiming for a higher standard of excellence so my Lord will be proud of me.

One of my favorite verses is found in Psalm 138:8, “The LORD will perfect that which concerneth me: thy mercy, O LORD, endureth for ever: forsake not the works of thine own hands.”
God will help us become the writers, painters, the artists, He would have us be.
In first grade, I fretted over every paint stroke, and now? I
struggle with keystrokes. Perhaps fear is keeping you from writing or ministering in some other way. Maybe you’re like me, always reaching for perfectionism. It’s easy to think even good is unattainable when agents, editors, and assorted professionals hand out rejections on a regular basis.

It was a great comfort to me when I acknowledged there is only one who is perfect, and God uses plain, ordinary, flawed people like you and me. As our Master, God loves us and uses us by the power of the Holy Spirit to do His work on earth. It’s an honor to be used by God in any way, but if He allows me to be one who can convey words of wisdom, or comfort, or peace while here on earth, I’m humbled, yet elated, at the thought.

  • Donna J. Shepherd, children's picture book author and inspirational writer, has hundreds of articles and devotions to her credit. Her writings appear in Daily Grace for Women, Anytime Prayers for Everyday Moms, and The Best Grandma in the World to name a few. Her children's books feature short, playful rhymes and humorous illustrations. Donna is founder of Greater Harvest Workshops and Middletown Area Christian Writers, and in demand as a Bible teacher, conference speaker, and singer with over thirty years of experience. Visit Donna on the web at